My boyfriend came over for dinner and ended up crying in the basement afterwards.
He entered the house totally unaware of the lecture he was about to get.
Here’s the sitch, my step-mom, dad, brother(who is the nice one and didn’t do anything to harm him) and my grandmother who came over were here. All were ready for the great talk during dinner. It was from 4:30pm to 7:30 that all of this had occured. We all were in the kitchen, it was a happy time. I was bored. and so was my boyfriend. I didn’t want him here, because in about a few 30 minutes we would be eating and getting a long lecture about kissing/necking in public.
My step-mom had watched us on the sidewalk kissing, she claims that we had eachothers tongues down our throats.
And for me, she was assuming things and I HATE HATE HATE it when people do that. It was wrong
She came up and offered me a ride and then told grandma and dad. Karin was rubbing it in all day and grandma joked about it, but made her point about privacy.
Dad was very quite about it, but did make his point.
Now I got this talk the day before, so I had cried the night of and let it out.
I was used to it the next day, but I had forgotten to warn my boyfriend of it.
So by the time he came for dinner, they were talking up a storm and since he is sensitive and very emotional, this didn’t go down well.
His smiles and happy feelings went down dramatically, He didn’t cry or show any emotion infron of my family until after I had clean up the dishes and me, him, and my brother went downstairs. There, I let him be for a couple of minutes, then he burst into tears.
I had to comfort him for 30 minutes and it didn’t work. He was picked up and left still upset.
This is why I don’t have people over, because my parents scare them. Even if they are brave.
I knew this would happen, but now I know, to stay away from my parents and go everywhere but home.
